Be inspired, not motivated
Choose what works for you
Enjoy it or stop
I know these may sound too simple. But apparently these 3 factors form the basis for weight loss success in the LONG run.
In other words, you may be MOTIVATED to lose weight by fear of getting sick or worry about how others might perceive you but ultimately, these motivators are NOT strong enough to keep you going in the long run. So what is?
Let’s look at each of these secrets in more depth.
#1 Be inspired, not motivated
How do you get inspired?
Well, it has to come from within, not without.
From within meaning YOU are the source of wanting to lose weight, not some outside person or circumstance. For example, if you want to lose weight because you are afraid you won’t look good in a bikini, that is an outside source.
Some examples of sources from without:
- Friends or family urging you to lose weight
- Doctor urging you to lose weight
- Desire to look good or impress someone or some people
- Fear of getting sick or dying
Some examples of sources within:
- A desire to be healthy because it feels good
- A desire to be healthy because it’s fun to eat good quality, nutritious food
- A desire to be healthy because you want to inspire others (like your children) and you believe it is fundamentally a good thing to be healthy
How do you find your internal source of inspiration?
Explore the following 2 questions:
- What is most important to you in your life?
- When are you at your best?
The answers to these questions will help you identify the aspects of yourself and your life that you LOVE and appreciate. From here, you can associate those aspects with the desire to lose weight.
WRITE IT DOWN!!
Write down aspects about yourself and your life that you love. Now connect those with being healthy and eating a nutritious and delicious diet.
For me, I wrote the following:
I love my children, I love my family and spending time with them, I love dancing, I love being healthy, I love that I have lots of energy and I sleep well, I love hiking, I love that my mind is clear, focused, and calm, I love traveling, I love eating good food
- I want to be healthy so I can spend time and have fun and relax with my family.
- I want to be healthy because I like having lots of energy and being able to work out hard, hike, and go dancing.
- I want to be healthy so I can see the world and enjoy myself
- I love the feeling of eating nutritious food and I also love being able to eat a variety of foods and not always be perfect with my diet.
So if you truly want to lose weight and keep it off, find your inspiration and STOP doing it for other people. Do it because you want to. Do it because you love yourself. Do it because it is fun and you get so much in return!
These are proven methods of losing weight and keeping it off. 1,2,3
#2 Choose what works for you
The only way you are going to actually enjoy eating healthily and losing weight is if, AND ONLY IF, you are doing what is best for you.
Notice I did not say, what your doctor told you to do, or what your best friend is doing, or what the latest fad is. Get rid of all that.
One of the most spectacular and beautiful things about you is that you are unique. Honor that.
So…how do you figure out what works for you?
First check out the “What Works for You?” page. There you can read unbiased info about different dietary perspectives out there.
Then take the “Best Diet for You” quiz.
These two steps will get you started.
Next I would love for you to read about being a “Health Tracker”. See how you can utilize biometrics (body tracking like measuring your resting heart rate, blood pressure, body composition, etc) to help you further refine what works and what doesn’t work for YOU.
I am also in the process of designing a course to help people like you that are independent thinkers that want to opt out of the system of dietary dogma and doing things to satisfy others.
In this course you will learn how to choose a diet and fitness plan, how to observe your body, try it out, and tweak it. You will become the expert. No longer will you need to rely on diet and fitness gurus to lose weight and get fit. Learning about your own body and how it reacts to your practices will give you confidence in your choices and will inspire you to stick to your own plan. Contact me for more info about the Course.
#3 Enjoy it or stop
And finally, I highly, highly encourage you to approach this as just another way to enjoy your life.
If you think it’s drudgery, it is. If you think it’s hard, it is. If you think you are going to just fail, yet again, you will.
Change your attitude and you change your life.
Have fun. Find recipes that inspire you. Find little nutritious treats and rewards if you need it. Get competitive and make it a game. Find a friend or other people doing similar things and get support.
You CAN do this. But if you feel you are suffering, depriving yourself, or feel forced into something you won’t sustain it.
And for sure, being inspired from within and recognizing the way of eating that is most appealing and valuable for YOU are two big steps toward enjoying this journey.